Fabiola Santiago

The better off in Florida are homophobic, racist adults, Gov. DeSantis, not kids | Opinion

Republican presidential candidate Florida Governor Ron DeSantis stands on stage with his wife, Casey DeSantis, and son, Mason DeSantis, after the Republican Presidential Primary Debate at Drake University in Des Moines, Iowa hosted by CNN on Jan. 10, 2024.
Republican presidential candidate Florida Governor Ron DeSantis stands on stage with his wife, Casey DeSantis, and son, Mason DeSantis, after the Republican Presidential Primary Debate at Drake University in Des Moines, Iowa hosted by CNN on Jan. 10, 2024. Zach Boyden-Holmes / USA TODAY NETWORK

Only in Gov. Ron DeSantis’ version of Fantasyland are kids in Florida “better off” under his watch.

The presidential job-seeker’s assertion, during Wednesday’s Iowa debate with Nikki Haley, that such is the state of childhood in Florida would be laughable — Exhibit No. 1, the man is trying to ruin happy-for-all Disney World — if his anti-science children’s healthcare policies weren’t dangerous.

Or, his lie might have played out as the self-deprecating joke of a desperate, losing candidate — if DeSantis had kept his homophobia, transphobia, and discomfort with the legacy of racism in American history, where those sordid feelings belong, in the privacy of his home and wooden heart.

But DeSantis made his fears and prejudices against people who aren’t white, straight and ultra Christian-conservative the public’s business in Florida. And what he has unleashed isn’t child-friendly at all.

He used his power to get bills passed through the lily-livered Florida Legislature, signing into law medical practices that go against the advice of respected child healthcare experts like the American Academy of Pediatrics.

This means doctors and psychiatrists in Florida are limited by law on what they can do to address our children’s gender issues, and subject to felony penalties if they deviate from GOP wishes. Doctors also have their hands tied treating mothers facing an unwanted pregnancy discovered after six weeks, which also adversely affects entire families.

And, because the anti-vaxxer governor is a friend of debunked science and quack medical opinions, he has not only campaigned against children (and adults) getting the COVID vaccine, but he’s made it difficult for Florida parents to access boosters.

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Before & after DeSantis

Under his mandate, schools are no longer safe zones for gay and trans children.

Before DeSantis, the intersection of healthcare, identity and lifestyle was a matter between parents and their doctors. Decisions about approach and care were based on individual cases and made as a family unit.

Now, healthcare and education are in the hands of Republican ideologues — social engineers who constantly feed voters misinformation and outright lies, feeding people’s lowest human instincts to shun the reality and preferences of others.

In schools, children unable to speak to their parents about conflicting identity issues, often were able to confide in a teacher, who in consultation with supervisors, would decide if it warranted parental intervention, or if the disclosure might put the child’s life in danger from family.

No more.

Teachers can be sued, fined, and fired if they allow gender identity discussions, pushing some excellent teachers to leave Florida or the profession, worsening a teacher shortage. This isn’t good for anyone, but least of all for children.

Adults have the power of choice — and many Floridians are exercising it by moving with their trans or gay children out of state, driven by the anti-LGBTQ laws, like former Heat star Dwayne Wade, whose teenage daughter Zaya came out as transgender in 2020.

Parents aren’t going to run the risk of the state taking transgender minors away from their families for receiving gender-affirming care. Nor will they stand for the atmosphere of hate and disrespect DeSantis’ constant harangues and policies have generated.

Unfortunately, not all children have parents with the financial wherewithal to move them to a more sane and accepting state — and remain stuck in DeSantis World suffering his pathology, especially in schools, where they’re no longer free to be themselves.

Nor to read literature that reflects their reality. Nor to play sports in the team where they feel they belong.

No, children are definitely not better off in Florida, where the education system is under-performing, according to national assessments. DeSantis’ solution: Get rid of the tests and dissuade kids from going to college.

With no accountability and ways to measure, he can claim success. With kids skipping higher education, his wealthy donors can access cheaper labor.

Presidential candidate Ron DeSantis stands behind his podium during a commercial break of the Republican presidential debate between Nikki Haley and Ron DeSantis at Sheslow Auditorium on the Drake University campus on Wednesday, Jan. 10, 2024, in Des Moines.
Presidential candidate Ron DeSantis stands behind his podium during a commercial break of the Republican presidential debate between Nikki Haley and Ron DeSantis at Sheslow Auditorium on the Drake University campus on Wednesday, Jan. 10, 2024, in Des Moines. Lily Smith Lily Smith / USA TODAY NETWORK

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DeSantis’ ignorance on display

The governor’s culture wars and their harmful effect, however, are catching up to him.

In the process of trying to convince Republican voters that he and his “Florida Blueprint” are the alternative to disgraced Donald Trump, DeSantis recast his record — the vengeful attack on Disney World and his ruthless approach to LGBTQ and transgender children — to paint a pretty picture depicting major successes.

Oh, and what a macho man he was to take on Disney!

“We took on Disney and we defeated that and we won that fight and our kids kids are better off now,” DeSantis said.

A big lie that he kept repeating. Disney continues to celebrate Pride Month with “Gay Days,” and in 2023 released its Disney Pride Collection of clothing and accessories.

He went on to accuse the entertainment giant, which is suing him for political retaliation, of “transing kids.” Bigger lie.

And, instead of scoring points, he played the ignorant fool, not knowing how to appropriately speak about an issue on which he has imposed his will on experts.

Most importantly, the “job done” he claims is far from a done deal.

DeSantis is being sued over the denial of healthcare to transgender children, and the federal judge presiding over the case has noted that DeSantis spread false information about doctors mutilating children’s genitals.

His neatly-packaged arguments, an attempt to camouflage what’s clearly discrimination, fear of difference and assaults on free speech, are coming undone.

Voters do have the last word — and, apparently, no matter how much the governor travels the nation, or perhaps because they’re getting to know him — polls show voters just don’t pick him.

Even in Florida, where DeSantis thinks he’s king, voters prefer 91-count, criminally-charged Donald Trump.

Turns out the people better off in Florida are possibly a minority: homophobic, racist adults.

But, definitely, not our children.

Fabiola Santiago
Miami Herald
Award-winning columnist Fabiola Santiago has been writing about all things Miami since 1980, when the Mariel boatlift became her first front-page story. A Cuban refugee child of the Freedom Flights, she’s also the author of essays, short fiction, and the novel “Reclaiming Paris.” Support my work with a digital subscription
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