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So how did female guests get invited to Diddy’s ‘freak offs’? Party planners tell all

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We are learning more about what went on at Sean “Diddy” Combs “freak-offs,” and how to get on the list.

According to the federal indictment against the rapper, he often threw these orgy-style, drug and alcohol fueled parties with sex workers mixed in with celebrities, wannabe influencers and industry people.

So who got on the guest list? And how?

Apparently, not just anyone. According to two female party planners, the fallen mogul had quite a few aesthetic requirements for the women. The 54 year old was very particular about how they looked, dressed and how much they weighed.

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“We would do a weigh-in, if necessary,” one unnamed organizer told The New York Post. “The girls had to be young and hot, so I always had a scale nearby in case I needed to make sure. The number was 140 pounds, but if a girl was really tall, there was a little bit of discretion involved.”

The latter planner worked with Diddy in 2004 and 2005; it’s unclear where the parties were held. The singer held them all over the place, from hotels, entertainment venues as well as homes in the Hamptons, L.A. and Miami Beach.

Another organizer revealed that Combs didn’t like his guests to have “flab” or “cellulite” or have too many piercings or tattoos.

READ MORE: Diddy breaks his silence from behind bars

In terms of a dress code: “No pants. No jeans. No flat shoes,” said the planner. “Every girl had to wear a party dress, preferably very short, just enough to cover her butt cheeks, but no longer than mid-thigh. Cleavage showing. And every single one of them had to be wearing stilettos. That one, there was no exception: high stilettos.”

Age was reportedly not a factor.

“It was don’t ask, don’t tell.”

Combs currently awaits trial on sex trafficking charges at the MDC facility in Brooklyn on no bail. A court date has been set for May 5, 2025.

Madeleine Marr
Miami Herald
Celebrity/real time news reporter Madeleine Marr has been with The Miami Herald since 2003. She has covered such features as travel, fashion and food. In 2007, she helped launch the newspaper’s daily People Page, attending red carpet events, awards ceremonies and press junkets; interviewing some of the biggest names in show business; and hosting her own online show. She is originally from New York City.
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