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‘Not a crime’: At Miami Beach Pride, bills targeting LGBTQ+ community take center stage

Mailen Mejuto isn’t sure whether she wants kids in the future. But one thing is for certain: the 28-year-old knows she wouldn’t want to raise them in Florida.

Mejuto on Sunday joined thousands of people — some decked out in rainbow flags and others in beach wear — gathered along Ocean Drive in South Beach’s scorching heat to watch the annual pride parade.

Sisters Sam, left, and Katrina Vastos from Colorado enjoy the parade with the aid of bubbles.
Sisters Sam, left, and Katrina Vastos from Colorado enjoy the parade with the aid of bubbles. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

The South Beach resident didn’t have to go far to join the festivities but said she’s concerned by what’s happening around the country. In Florida, lawmakers want to expand the Parental Rights in Education Act, commonly known as the “Don’t Say Gay” bill, which would bar classroom instruction on sexual orientation or gender identity from pre-K to eighth grade instead of kindergarten to third grade.

“I think there’s more important things like wars in other countries than banning drag,” she said. “How many shootings have you seen in drag shows... in a mall, or in a school where kids are trying to have an education?”

The bills coming out of the legislative session were on the minds of many at this year’s pride parade. Signs and shirts in the parade — and in the crowd — commented on the perceived attack on the LGBTQ+ community.

“Say Gay.” “Save trans youth.” “Be bold. Live free. Stay woke. Love all.”

READ MORE: ‘We say gay.’ Bills targeting LGBTQ+ community have some South Florida families worried

Dressed in drag, the parade MC engages participants as they wave to the crowd on Sunday, April 16, 2023, on Ocean Drive in Miami Beach.
Dressed in drag, the parade MC engages participants as they wave to the crowd on Sunday, April 16, 2023, on Ocean Drive in Miami Beach. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

One of the parade’s emcees wore a white dress with red text that said: “Drag is not a crime.” Members of a Coral Gables church congregation dragged a cart with “banned books” written on the side as others waved a sign that said “You are loved.” Children, too, marched in the parade, handing out pride swag to the crowd.

A truck flashing a message almost foreshadowed part of what went down on Sunday: “Your vote is the greatest form of protest.”

As the celebration winded down, paraders with Equality Florida handed out fliers about State Rep. Fabian Basabe, urging the crowd to boo when the official appeared in a red convertible.

On Sunday, April 16, 2023, companies, municipal, local, and LGBTQ+ organizations parade north on Ocean Drive during the Miami Beach Pride parade in light of the anti-LGBTQ+ bills in the Florida legislature this year.
On Sunday, April 16, 2023, companies, municipal, local, and LGBTQ+ organizations parade north on Ocean Drive during the Miami Beach Pride parade in light of the anti-LGBTQ+ bills in the Florida legislature this year. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

Why? Basabe (R-Miami Beach) has voted consistently with Republicans on controversial culture-war bills, sparking several constituent protests.

READ MORE: Miami Beach legislator faces scrutiny over votes — and allegation that he slapped aide

Last month, Basabe supported the expansion of the “Don’t Say Gay” bill. On Wednesday, he spoke during a committee hearing in favor of a bill that would bar children from attending drag shows with “lewd” performances, arguing it is “protecting the drag industry” from performers who are “taking things too far and ruining it for the rest of us.”

Fabian Basabe, R-Miami Beach, who ran for the Florida House as a moderate but voted consistently with Republicans on controversial culture-war bills, asks for understanding as the crowd protests.
Fabian Basabe, R-Miami Beach, who ran for the Florida House as a moderate but voted consistently with Republicans on controversial culture-war bills, asks for understanding as the crowd protests. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

Michelle Vasco, 40, celebrated pride at the parade with her wife Astrid Garcia, 37, and daughter Dominique Mosley, 22. Vasco said she doesn’t understand why politicians are suddenly so focused on the LGBTQ+ community.

“[The Legislature] should be worrying about other things that are more important than the LGBT community because we do no harm,” the Cutler Bay resident said. “All we do is just love.”

Attendees Pascale Bertand, 40, left, Elysa Irizarray, 14, center, and Dominique Mosley, 22, right, cheer on the many floats parading down Ocean Drive on Sunday, April 16, 2023.
Attendees Pascale Bertand, 40, left, Elysa Irizarray, 14, center, and Dominique Mosley, 22, right, cheer on the many floats parading down Ocean Drive on Sunday, April 16, 2023. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

As a foster mom to two toddlers, Vasco believes that limiting classroom discussions related to sexual orientation and gender identity will only cause harm. She said many children are in foster care because their families kicked them out. Some may even resort to suicide.

“It’s not like they teach how to be gay,” Vasco said. “That can’t be taught.”

Patrons of the Palace show their support for parade participants on Sunday, April 16, 2023.
Patrons of the Palace show their support for parade participants on Sunday, April 16, 2023. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

Solanch Dominguez, joined by her girlfriend, said she avoids thinking about the decisions being made in Tallahassee because they upset her — as someone who’s part of the community and as a child of a gay father.

“This is a free country... so we should be and feel whatever we want to,” the 22-year-old Miami resident said. “I really do hope that everyone opens their eyes and realizes what’s going on.”

Couples wave to the crowd during the parade up Ocean Drive on Miami Beach, Sunday, April 16, 2023.
Couples wave to the crowd during the parade up Ocean Drive on Miami Beach, Sunday, April 16, 2023. Carl Juste cjuste@miamiherald.com

Mailen Mejuto can’t bare the thought of raising a child in a Florida with these policies in place. She fears that children with same-sex parents won’t be able to talk about their families in school — simply because of their parents’ sexual orientation.

“It’s 2023. We should quit the bull****,” Mejuto said. “There are important things that we have to be worried about.”

This story was originally published April 16, 2023 at 6:16 PM.

Grethel Aguila
Miami Herald
Grethel covers courts and the criminal justice system for the Miami Herald. She graduated from the University of Florida (Go Gators!), speaks Spanish and Arabic and loves animals, traveling, basketball and good storytelling. Grethel also attends law school part time.
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