Alysa Liu’s Best Quotes That Prove She Was Always Destined for Olympic Gold
Alysa Liu walked away from figure skating at 16 years old. Two years later, she returned, refused to let anyone dictate her appearance or identity, and won Olympic gold. The way she talks about pressure, struggle, and self-expression offers a blueprint that extends far beyond the ice.
The 20-year-old posted a score of 150.20 in the women’s individual skate at the Olympics. Silver medalist Kaori Sakamoto and bronze medalist Ami Nakai, both of Japan, came closest to her total. But the skating itself was only part of the story.
After nailing her performance, the Oakland native skated off the ice, looked straight into the camera, and said: “That’s what I’m f***ing talking about!”
Then came something even more striking.
“I don’t need this,” she said after winning gold, cupping the gold medal dangling around her neck. “But what I needed was a stage, and I got that. So I was all good, no matter what. If I fell on every jump, I would still be wearing this dress, so it’s all good.”
She had just won an Olympic gold medal and said she didn’t even need it.
She Flipped the Script on Competition Pressure
When an interviewer asked Liu whether she feels stressed at the Olympics, she didn’t hesitate: “Oh hell no. … Competitions are where I’m least stressed because people get to see what I do. That’s why I do it. So I can share my work,” per NBC.
She doesn’t treat competition as a test she might fail. She treats it as a stage where she gets to show people what she’s been working on. The performance isn’t the scary part — it’s the whole point.
And the difficult parts of training? According to a 60 Minutes feature in early 2026, Liu shared a powerful sentiment regarding her training: “I love struggling, actually. It makes me feel alive.”
No sugarcoating. She’s not pretending the struggle doesn’t exist. She’s saying she genuinely loves it because it’s what makes her feel something real.
Why She Walked Away — and What Brought Her Back
Liu competed at the Beijing Winter Olympics and then announced her retirement from skating in 2022 at age 16. Most athletes that age are just getting started.
When she returned in 2024, she was clear about why.
Per Cosmopolitan: “I went through a whole year of school, and during winter break, I went skiing and I realized school was hard, but it was not challenging enough for me. I got into other things, like fashion, but I never went to the gym. Skating gave me something to be strong for. I love having willpower. I used to never care about programs, what you skated to, your dresses, stuff like that. Now, I love skating dresses and helping with the design process. This sport is kind of an outlet for me. I love dance and music, so it’s everything in one.”
She didn’t come back because someone pressured her. She didn’t come back because she felt obligated. She came back because she missed having something to be strong for. The challenge of school alone wasn’t enough for someone who thrives on pushing through difficulty.
She also came back with a completely different relationship to her sport. She left as someone who “never cared about programs.” She returned loving the entire creative process — the dresses, the music, the artistry. That kind of evolution is what stepping away and coming back with fresh eyes can actually look like.
She Drew a Hard Line on Her Identity
Liu faced pressure over her appearance and refused to bend.
“No one tells me what I’m gonna wear. No one tells me how my hair is gonna be. No one’s gonna try to change me,” she told Cosmopolitan in January 2026.
Her coaches warned her that some judges and “higher-ups” might “be concerned” with her look. Her response was direct.
“I said if they tell me to dye my hair back, I will quit. If they don’t like it and they want to give me less scores or treat me differently, that’s on them. If I change my hair, it’s gonna be because I wanted to,” she said.
That’s a young woman drawing a clear line between who she is and what other people want her to be — choosing herself every single time. In a sport where athletes have historically been pushed toward a narrow definition of what a skater should look like, Liu made it clear that her self-expression was non-negotiable. She’d rather quit than compromise on that.
Her Support System Carries Her
Liu became the first American woman since Sasha Cohen at the 2006 Turin Games to medal in singles figure skating. Sarah Hughes was the last gold medal winner for the U.S. in 2002.
“(Do) stuff that people tell you you shouldn’t do,” Liu said of her message, per The Athletic. “I’ve been doing a lot of that. You also have to find a good team. I’m so grateful to find such great support around me. My friends really hold me down. So that, no matter what happens in my life, I think I have a beautiful life story, and I feel really lucky.”
She’s not saying go it alone. She’s saying stand your ground on who you are, but find the people who will hold you down while you do it.
‘There’s No Way to Lose’
Maybe the most striking thing Liu said had nothing to do with winning gold. It was about what happens when things don’t go perfectly.
“What I like to share about myself is my story, my art and my creative process,” she told NBC News. “I guess messing up doesn’t take away from that. It’s still something, it’s still a story. A bad story is still a story, and I think that’s beautiful. There’s no way to lose.”
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