Now that my daughters are halfway to age 21, I've started to think a lot about what kind of street-wise life advice I should be giving them. Because the time never seems appropriate to dispense these pearls of wisdom, I've started collecting them for just the right moment. What would you add?
· When you walk alone, keep your head up. Don't look like a victim.
· Avoid dirty toilet seats, smooth-talking men and raw meat. They often carry diseases.
· Beauty and the Beast is a fairytale. If he's big and acts like he wants to hurt you, don't stick around, even if he has a lot of money and a really big house.
· Don't dawdle in parking lots. Get in, lock your doors and drive.
· Avoid pack mentality. "Never underestimate the power of stupid people in large groups," George Carlin said. He wasn't joking.
· Keep pushing yourself outside your comfort zone. It's the only way to grow.
· On the worst of days, the only thing to remember is that a good one will eventually follow.
· If you have the chance to travel or study abroad, take it.
· Always have an exit plan.
· No girl gets left behind. When you go out with friends, never let one go off with a guy she doesn't know.
· Live alone for awhile. Give yourself time to discover who you are.
· If you marry your first love, you will never know the exquisite pain of a broken heart – and the amazing euphoria of discovering love again.
· Don't date your girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. Ever.
· When you're someone's guest for dinner, don't order the most expensive or the cheapest item on the menu.
· Always have your own money, checking account and credit.
· Be sympathetic to people who are less fortunate and work hard to include them.
· Take pleasure in small things: a swim in the ocean, a good book, a juicy peach.
· Learn how to forgive – yourself, others and especially your mom.
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