A man at a tech conference made an off-color joke to a friend; someone overheard, took offense and posted his picture online. A woman posed for a photo making a rude gesture at Arlington National Cemetery and, meaning to amuse her friends, uploaded it to Facebook. Another woman sent out a tweet intended as irreverent satire that came off as racism.
Word spread, posts and photos shared. Next thing you know, these people were facing vilification via Internet — a torrent of criticism, insults and even death threats from around the world — essentially for making bad jokes. This modern form of punishment, Jon Ronson argues in So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed, is wildly disproportionate to the “crimes.”
An avid tweeter himself, Ronson admits to having gleefully participated in digital pile-ons against errant institutions. But when he noticed ordinary people being targeted, he wondered how they were affected by these outpourings of outrage.
To any individual social media user dashing off a disapproving post, it might seem like no big deal, quickly forgotten. But “a snowflake never feels responsible for the avalanche,” Ronson writes. Multiply each individual’s anger by even a fraction of Twitter’s 288 million users or Facebook’s 1.35 billion and the cumulative effect, Ronson discovers, is brutal.
He finds his subjects demoralized, shattered, worried that their careers and maybe even their lives are permanently damaged. They’ve deleted online accounts and holed up in their houses. All lost their jobs when their companies scrambled to distance themselves.
Personable and empathetic, Ronson is an entertaining guide to the odd corners of the shame-o-sphere. He tests theories about what triggers the phenomenon and how a target might cope emotionally. He finds a company that scrubs clients’ Internet identities, normally charging hundreds of thousands of dollars; they agree to work pro bono for one of Ronson’s subjects. The process involves painstakingly seeding the Internet with bland mentions of the person, pushing the negative ones down the list of Google hits.
Ronson visits a judge known for handing out zany sentences, like requiring people to carry signs on the street. Surprisingly, these criminals seem better recovered from real-life shamings than Ronson’s subjects from their virtual ones.
The judge notes some differences. For one thing, criminals are guaranteed basic constitutional rights. “You don’t have any rights when you’re accused on the Internet,” the judge says. “And the consequences are worse. It’s worldwide forever.”
Katy Reed reviewed this book for the Star Tribune (Minneapolis).