Parent who cares
One way to help your son would be to stop other family members from making fun of him and labeling him as a klutz. When people laugh and ridicule others, it makes them only more self-conscious and more clumsy.
Another way to help would be to have him examined by an ophthalmologist and a neurologist. His problem may be poor depth perception or a neurological or balance issue. And while you’re at it, consider having him evaluated for a learning disability, which may be the cause of his academic difficulties.
Many people regard sharing food to be an act of intimacy. Because it makes you uncomfortable, all you have to do is say, “I’d prefer not to.” If these folks are friends, they must know how you feel about this by now. And as for your boyfriend, I can’t help but wonder why he would persist in doing something that he knows annoys you unless he’s doing it to tease you.
Tired night owl
Night owls are usually born that way, but the pattern can be changed. If it creates problems for you, you may have a condition called “delayed sleep phase disorder.” The most effective way to find out if this is your problem would be to consult a sleep (disorder) specialist. Therapies are available, and a specialist can help you determine which one would be the best for you.