Q: For years I have had trouble holding my urine during sexual intimacy. I'm in my 40s and have had children and I have a ridiculously small bladder. I'm always thinking about it and although my husband says it's no big deal, I am so worried about being embarrassed that it's holding me back. Is there any hope for me?
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Q: I have used testosterone gels for almost a year and I feel more lively and my libido has rebounded, but I read so many things about testosterone for men that I'm really confused. Is testosterone good or bad?
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Q: My husband wakes up all the time at night and I am worried about him falling on his way to the bathroom in the dark. How can I get him to go to the doctor's office for help?
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Q: I grew up in an age when girls didn't become sexually active until college or marriage. Now TV shows and movies often show teens in sexual situations. I don't think this is progress. What does the medical community think?
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Q: I always see advertisements selling perfume products that will make my boyfriend crazy for me. They claim that a tiny drop will make him wild. Is that possible?
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Q: I run to the restroom several times, day and night, sometimes at great speeds so as not to wet myself. I am only 45 and my wife tells me that I go even more than she does. People are even making fun of me at work! My doctor says that my prostate is small, my PSA is normal and that I should just relax. Is there anything else I can do?
DOCTOR G
Q: My husband snores just about every night. I will do just about anything to get him to a doctor. I have even thought about sleeping in another room, but I am scared it will affect our relationship and our ability to be sexually spontaneous in the middle of the night. What can I do?
DOCTOR G
Q: I used to make fun of the middle-aged men taking their time at the urinals at the ballpark. Now my stream is slower, it takes a while to get things started and I am always looking for a bathroom wherever I go. Worse yet, my wife complains that I'm waking her two or three times at night when I go to the bathroom. I'm petrified that I may need surgery. What are my choices?
DOCTOR G
Q: I just turned 55 and I have had several friends who have had prostate biopsies in order to be certain that they don't have cancer. I'm not particularly keen on the idea of a biopsy. Is there anything new to help determine whether someone has prostate cancer?
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Q: I'm one of those happy guys married to a woman who still enjoys sex after all these years. We sometimes have sex three or four times a week. I have been using medications to help my erection, but I can't always know exactly when to use them since I can't predict when we will do it. What's a guy to do?
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Q: Sex is not what it was 15 years ago for my husband and me. He refuses to face up to some decrease in his virility and I think it is affecting my sexuality. He's too macho to see a doctor, but now I'm suffering, too. What should I tell him?
DOCTOR G
Q: I am 68 and had a heart attack three years ago. My wife and I are concerned that being intimate might cause another one. Is sex dangerous for people with heart conditions?
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Q: For a guy, I have had very few relationships. For decades, my last lover would have a quick orgasm, roll over and fall asleep, often ignoring my own climax. My current lover can have multiple orgasms and we can enjoy our love for hours. Are multiple orgasms related to being in love?
