I completely believe everything Fred Grimm wrote in his Nov. 7 column, Cruelty rules in absence of women, and understand it all better after reading his piece. Now I understand why so many Dolphins players are siding with Richie Incognito.
Maybe Jonathan Martin hadn’t been exposed to men like Incognito as many men have and felt intimidated. I feel sorry for him, too, but men can be gross and vulgar. If the younger players are being made to pay for dinners and more, I find it outrageous — especially considering all the money the players are making — and a true lack of character.
I really never cared for Incognito, but understand him better. His head-butting a player could cause permanent injury, and I find his act sadistic.
Beverly Wickham, Hollywood