Two years later, Dakotas father, Todd Stiles, was accused of chasing his 13-year-old daughter down the street, tackling her, and pulling her by the hair back home for refusing to clean her room. In May 2012, Dakotas brother arrived at school complaining of pain in his head, and said his father had thrown a blanket over him, causing him to fall on his head. DCF determined the children were safe following all three investigations, and took no action.
But by the time a DCF investigator returned to the family in mid-July, it had become clear that Summer and Todd Stiles had profound difficulty raising their children.
The children, a report said, do not listen to Summer and Todd Stiles, and could not be coaxed to comply with the simplest of things, such as cleaning their rooms.
The parents appear to be paralyzed in parenting the children, the report said. A significant challenge was both parents ability to comprehend the severity of the situation, with [the] youngest child escaping from the family home and the parents total failure to take several security measures at their disposal.
Still, the investigator persuaded the couple to sign a safety plan pledging to clean the house and better supervise their children. While the investigation remained open, Dakota left the home again and drowned July 25.
Hit by dinnerware
Cherish was found dead shortly after 9 a.m. on June 22. Her body had been dumped near a church.
Finding a suitable parent for Cherish and her siblings had remained a serious problem for years.
By 2009, when Cherishs name appeared in abuse hotline reports twice, the girls mother, Rayne Perrywinkle, had been diagnosed with severe psychiatric problems, and had tried to commit suicide. She once told the department she had stopped taking medication for her bipolar disorder, borderline personality disorder and depression due to not wanting to be addicted. She threw a plate at her young stepson.
Cherishs birth father, a sailor with a long history of domestic violence, had been court-martialed for sexually abusing a child.
Perrywinkle and the two boyfriends with whom she shared three children had amassed a lengthy record of investigations that went largely nowhere with DCF, including allegations of physical abuse, domestic violence and claims that Perrywinkles history of mental illness made her an unfit mother.
There were two investigations when Cherish was 4 and was living with her mom at a homeless shelter, one involving allegations Perrywinkle had forcefully shaken and jerked the little girl because she was crying. There was a 2009 investigation involving allegations that Rayne Perrywinkle tried to kill herself by drinking Benadryl and had been involuntarily committed, and another report that year that Cherishs father had left a hand print on the childs back from beating her.
A May 2009 investigation included the claim that Perrywinkle had thrown a plate at a small child which she admitted was true, but defended as acceptable discipline. The dinnerware only hit him in the shoulder, Perrywinkle told an investigator, and, besides, it was [his] fault because he was being disrespectful to her.
A 2012 report to the states hotline claimed Cherish was unsafe because her mothers boyfriend had bruised Rayne Perrywinkles arm during an argument. Perrywinkle later dismissed the incident as horseplay, and DCF closed the investigation as unfounded. In DCFs long history with Cherishs family, the agency had made referrals for counseling, parenting classes and domestic violence intervention but the reports kept coming.
The same day Perrywinkle excused the plate-throwing incident, May 2, 2009, she also told an investigator she watches her daughters carefully, because she was very sensitive to the possibility of her daughters being molested.
An older daughter, the report said, had been molested while in Perrywinkles care, and had moved all the way to Australia to get away from her mother.
That daughter, the report said, no longer speaks to Rayne.