Dan Le Batard

In My Opinion

Lacking a solution, putting pedophiles in jail is only choice left

 
 

Former Penn State assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky walks into the Centre County Courthouse before being sentenced in his child sex abuse case on October 9, 2012 in Bellefonte, Pennsylvania. Sandusky faces more than 350 years in prison for his conviction in June on 45 counts of child sexual abuse, including while he was the defensive coordinator for the Penn State college football team.
Former Penn State assistant football coach Jerry Sandusky walks into the Centre County Courthouse before being sentenced in his child sex abuse case on October 9, 2012 in Bellefonte, Pennsylvania. Sandusky faces more than 350 years in prison for his conviction in June on 45 counts of child sexual abuse, including while he was the defensive coordinator for the Penn State college football team.
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Jerry Sandusky will spend the unholy remains of his existence rotting in jail and/or Hell, although there is probably no discernable difference between those two things for a pedophile. Last week’s sentencing can’t quite feel like justice, given the damage done to the lives of the innocent, so instead we’ll have to settle for something closer to vengeance, which will do. Guilty of 45 counts of sex abuse against children, his crimes are so evil, so impossible to understand, so confounding to everything from science to the priesthood, that our solution is to throw his sickness in a dark, closed place and just wait for it to please die.

The worst place in the entire world to put a pedophile?

Around children.

The second worst place in the entire world to put a pedophile?

Prison.

A sick man

There is no moderate, understanding world between those two extremes, so rabid hostility engulfs pedophiles like Sandusky, who was at the center of the biggest scandal to ever hit American sports. We want him to die in jail, painfully preferably, to suffer for the horror he caused, to be tortured as he tortured, and so we call him a disgusting monster. “So sick,” we say, but if it is indeed a literal sickness, a mental illness, a psychiatric disorder, it is a sickness America seems to treat by yelling at it.

There is such a stigma associated with being attracted to children, understandably, that no pedophile would feel comfortable admitting a not-acted-upon urge to even a mental-health therapist, so the lonely shame tends to remain a dormant secret without treatment right up until it makes its way out into the light to our horror, whereupon we lock it back up in the dark. The problem with this routine is rinse-repeat obvious. The solution? Non-existent.

No deterrent

There is no known cure for whatever afflicts Sandusky. And, given how many sex offenders are jailed for everything from child porn to molestation, we don’t have much of a deterrent, either, not even with pedophiles living the worst prison existence known to man (rivaled only by snitches). White supremacist Joseph Druce planned for months and then murdered a defrocked priest, Father John Geoghan, as a “prize” in prison. Sandusky runs the risk of being beaten, tortured and murdered the rest of his life. Good, we say. And the world is indeed a better place without him. But this existence doesn’t seem to deter the next child molester any more than the news of Father Geoghan’s murder deterred Sandusky.

No one chooses to be attracted to children. How can that be a choice? Why would anyone choose that, given the consequences? Pedophilia seems like more of a predisposition or an orientation, linked to white matter in the brain by recent science on this subject that is new and incomplete. There are plenty of free adults walking around with a secret attraction to children, and they suppress it for the entirety of their lives without ever doing any harm to kids. In short, no one chooses to be a pedophile (the disorder associated with being attracted to children), but pedophiles do choose to be molesters. The urge itself can’t be controlled; but acting on it obviously must be.

Either way, though, it is a pretty awful existence for the pedophile, your brain wired to produce a feeling you can’t control but must suppress, and a feeling you better not share with anyone, either, because of the taboo and lack of helpful treatment. Gawker tackled this subject in a brave and thoughtful way, with an article headlined, “Born This Way: Sympathy and Science For Those Who Want To Have Sex With Children.” The author, Cord Jefferson, wrote in part, “Imagine a world in which admitting your attraction to busty women or tall men led to alienation, jail time or your murder.” It was fascinating, well-researched reading. The author, predictably, was inundated with hostility.

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