It will be 50 years this November since we took the Pan American Airways flight that would separate us from the life of the privileged in Cuba to that of political refugees. They served us tiny ham-and-cheese sandwiches with the iconic blue Pan Am logo that tasted to us of the future America.
We moved in with my aunt and uncle and their children into a three-bedroom house on the corner of 82nd Avenue and 17th Street, a neighborhood known as Westchester. The community was predominantly Jewish with a handful of Cuban professionals, actors and writers.
Walking distance was Everglades Elementary, a lovely school, but not if you didnt speak the language. I knew a few words in English the colors, numbers and so on but not enough to survive the third grade. I was made to feel alien, which I was.
I looked forward to my afternoons in the warmth of the kitchen of Mrs. Meyerss house, down the street. She would give me a quarter after school for babysitting and she allowed me to lick the cake batter off of her beaters. She was so nice to me and I acted as if I enjoyed her batter, but I didnt because I was suffering from anorexia nervosa and couldnt keep anything down.
No one really knew how bad things were for me at Everglades until my mother was informed that because of my problem with the language, I was being held back in second grade. Thank God that practice has since been abolished.
I also cherish the memories of the holiday traditions that were established early by my parents. We would all pack into the Ford Falcon and head to Jordan Marsh department store downtown (where the Omni is now) to see the beautiful animated Christmas displays and head upstairs to the toy department, where we would get our picture with Santa.
The holiday tradition would culminate with the New Years Eve parade down Flagler. Sometime around noon we would set up the fold-out chairs in the parking lot across from Walgreens and, with sandwiches and hot cocoa, we would see the likes of Paul Anka, Bobby Darrin, the stars of TV shows such as Flipper and the terrific high school bands. Everything in the Magic City was bright and shiny.
Spring of 1964 would bring The Beatles to Miami Beach, the Mustang, and Coral Park High School to Westchester. Wow, Mom, thats where the big kids go, I said, but all these things were in the future.
Spring also brought the celebration of Easter. Services at noon would be in Spanish at St. Brendans on 87th Avenue, with me in my two-piece pink outfit and straw hat from Zayres, also on 87th. Lunch would follow at the Pizza drive-in on Bird and 87th followed by a jelly-bean-decorated coconut cake from Publix on Coral Way.
I did not go to Coral Park High after all. I graduated from Southwest High off 87th Avenue and 47th Street in 1973, and by the time of my 10-year-reunion, both my parents had died of cancer at the age of 47, and I was divorcing. I had nothing to share.
The OMNI by then had replaced the magical windows of Jordan Marsh. As luck would have it, while getting certified in teaching, my internship landed me back at Everglades Elementary, in the exact second grade with the same teacher who had held me back as a 7-year-old. I eventually did end up at Coral Park, but as a teacher and, amazingly, that little 7-year-old was now honored by her peers and elected 1999 Teacher of the Year.
The Magic City will never recapture the luster of the 60s through the eyes of a 7-year-old. I miss the blimp on Watson Island, the train rides at McArthur Dairy on Mothers Day, flying kites on Fathers Day at Robert King High, the colorful Christmas windows at Jordan Marsh, and most of all, neighbors like Mrs. Meyers.