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VALENTINE'S DAY

Can virtual roses smell just as sweet on Valentine's Day?

 

Users of online dating and social networking sites are forking over serious cash to send fake flowers to find or impress a Valentine.

bcarey@MiamiHerald.com

It's a trusted formula: Send your sweetheart flowers, chocolates or teddy bears on Valentine's Day to express your love.

But what about sending a $10 image of flowers, chocolates or teddy bears to someone's online profile?

How about spending $50 on an icon of a pile of cash to impress a stranger you want to date?

The concept of paying real-world money for a virtual good has been around for a few years in games and social networks. On Facebook, for example, users can pay a few bucks to decorate a friend's profile page with an icon -- like a beer mug or a birthday balloon.

But in the past few months, several online dating sites have introduced virtual gift stores -- and users are jumping at the chance to woo a mate.

As mystifying as it may seem to traditional romantics, virtual gifts have become a $1 billion industry in the United States according to the research group Inside Network. Spending money on virtual goods has been huge in other parts of the world -- analysts estimate it to be a $5 billion industry worldwide.

Snap Interactive in New York runs the Facebook application ``Are You Interested?'' where users can find potential partners and send them virtual gifts as an ice breaker. The publicly traded company introduced a new gift store about two months ago, and CEO Clifford Lerner said the application is raking in ``a couple thousand dollars a day'' just from gift purchases.

More than 2.4 million people use the application monthly, the company said. Gifts start at about $1.25 for a heart and $1.75 for a rose, and get more expensive the more unique or animated they are -- like $20 for a picture of an engagement ring or gold bricks, or $10 for a teddy popping out of a gift box with the words ``Be My Valentine'' appearing on the screen.

Lerner said introducing a $20 icon of gold was just a test to see if people would spend the money. And they did. Four were sold within the first hour.

``We really believed virtual gifts would add a lot to the site and we had a lot of interesting ideas,'' Lerner said. ``It blew our mind that someone was going to spend $20 for a bar of gold, let alone four in the first hour.''

So the site offered more expensive icons based on the demand, like ``I'm Rich!'' which shows a pile of gold, cash and jewels, and ``You're Priceless!'' which is a guy holding a suitcase full of cash. Both sell for $20.

HIGHER PRICES

In the world of online flirting, virtual gifts sometimes defy the normal laws of supply and demand.

``We've actually seen a lot of times that the higher cost of some of these gifts, the more we actually sell,'' Lerner said. ``If a girl is not interested in a guy, and she sees he spent $20, she's probably going to respond. And that's worth it to the guy, just to get a response.''

Dr. Eva Ritvo, vice chair of the Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences at the University of Miami Miller School of Medicine, said sending a stack of cash icon that costs $50 is just another way of a guy showing he can provide for the woman.

``It's another symbolic representation that I have money and I will be able to take care of you,'' Ritvo said. ``It's a modern day equivalent of men going out for the kill.''

She adds that the value in a virtual gift would be high for someone who puts a lot of time and energy into their online profile.

``If someone is very into the virtual world and spends a lot of time on Facebook, sending an icon is speaking their language,'' Ritvo said.

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