TAKING THE KIDS
Bring the kids to destination weddings
Wherever a wedding is held, eight out 10 couples invite kids to their nuptials, according to a surveyed by TheKnot.com.
PLANNING TIPS
Here are some tips from Brides' Editor-in-Chief Millie Martini Bratten and TheKnot.com's Editor Anja Winikka: Start planning a year ahead (assuming you are engaged then!) Factor in the travel time when choosing the destination (you don't want kids -- and their parents -- arriving cranky after a long trip) and opt for a locale that is kid-friendly. Make sure the venue can accommodate all of your guests, no matter what their ages. Send out a ''Save the Date'' note so families can begin making their plans. Offer several different options for accommodations nearby, including hotels, condos and suite hotels appealing to families, at different price points. Negotiate the best rate you can at each place. (Doubletree Hotels, www.doubletree.com/weddings, has just launched a new Weddings by Doubletree website. Include gifts for the kids in the welcome bags and suggest area activities for the families with children, as well as for the adults in the wedding party. Plan for downtime. Kids can't go nonstop. Don't invite more guests than you really want to come.BY EILEEN OGINTZ
Tribune Media Services
The all-inclusive Elite Island Resorts (www.eliteislandresorts.com) in the Caribbean are offering free weddings (valued at $899), if couples book a FamilyMoon package. Mexico's Azul Hotels (www.karismahotels.com/azul), upscale all-inclusive resorts that cater to families, promise everything from complimentary walkie-talkies -- to keep track of everyone to organized children's activities -- to junior spa treatments, which seem to draw more couples, said Faith Wishnie, the director of wedding services for Azul Hotels by Karisma. At Walt Disney World (www.disneyweddings.com), ceremonies often include special gifts to the kids in honor of the moment, said spokesman Michelle Bauman (not to mention special guest appearances by the kids' favorite Disney characters!)
ONLINE PLANNING
But perhaps the biggest reason destination weddings have become so popular -- and we're talking an average 368,000 a year, more than 7,000 every weekend, according to Brides Magazine research -- is because of the Internet, said Brides' Bratten. Much of the planning -- and that includes coordinating with the guests -- can now be done online.
And then there is the cost. A destination wedding can be a lot cheaper because fewer guests come. Not to mention the fact that the honeymoon can start as soon as the wedding ceremony is over -- with plenty of relatives on hand to watch the kids.
Still, the Laymans opted to steal away for some just-us time. But Marjorie Campbell-Kennedy and her husband Dylan kept Colter with them after everyone left. ''It was wonderful -- just the three of us,'' she said. ``The perfect ending to a perfect wedding.''
There's just one problem. Colter keeps asking when they can go back to Belize.
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